Saturday, May 9, 2009

How Rude! *


Boy! Do I have something to bitch about today and yes, it's about blogging and the sometimes WEIRD and PUSHY people I meet online!

As you know, I belong to several blog communities and programs and one of them is BlogCatalog. I get quite a few of Add Friend requests on a daily basis so what I usually do is I will check my BlogCat account once a week. And that's when I'll add new friends, read messages, reply to the important ones, join groups and so on.

So last night, I received a message from a certain blogger at BlogCat, which I thought was rather rude. Mind you, I do not know this blogger. Apparently, he had left me another message a day before, saying that he's added me to his Facebook friends and to please do the same. His second message, the one that got me riled up last night was to reprimand ME for not responding to his first message! What is up with that?
marahangkatkening

Okay, firstly, I wasn't even aware of his first message, so I had no idea that he sent in a friendship request to me. Please remember that I have many other better things to do than to check all the messages that come my way from the many different programs I hold membership
with. So sometimes, it takes longer for me to respond to your requests. Secondly, it is up to me to decide who I want to approve into my FB Friends List. It is after all, MY Facebook and I set it up the way I please so if I don't accept you into my list, you have no right to get pissed off with me! merajuk

Do not get upset with me for responding late to your message! You have no idea how I run my daily schedule, what more my odd sleeping hours. Just because I have a life other than quickly responding to strangers' request for my FB hand in friendship, that does not mean you should chew my head off with your rude message. I can't stand rudeness and this one is just too much! For someone who's actually making the request for me to approve him, this blogger's nasty message was totally uncalled for. All it succeeded in doing was to completely turn me off from even getting to know him. If he thinks I'm going to happily approve his request now, he has another thought coming his way! I am nice yes, accommodating definitely; but once you step on my tail and for no valid reason too, you are nothing more but an insignificant tick to me! takbole

As Michelle Tanner from the ever popular sitcom Full House would say - HOW RUDE!
marah


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77 comments:

bem69,  May 9, 2009 at 9:17 PM

Don't get so riled up over people like that Marzie, you are not obligated to accept FB requests as its more personal than the other blog communities. He has no right to get pissed off with you for not replying, so, relax, nothing to get worked up about. Sometimes, ignorance is bliss.

Tere,  May 9, 2009 at 9:19 PM

he has no right to be rude like that. he does not own our time. hope he learns to be patient.

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Tere,  May 9, 2009 at 9:20 PM

I hope I made it! :)

Roxiticus Desperate Housewives,  May 9, 2009 at 9:43 PM

Ah, miss the chop!

Roxiticus Desperate Housewives,  May 9, 2009 at 9:46 PM

Rex, who barely knows what Facebook is, gets random emails from strangers telling him they want him to be their friends! Rex doesn't think he needs any of these new "friends" LOL :-D

Shemah,  May 9, 2009 at 11:02 PM

Jangan lah tensi.. besday boy mana boleh tensi!! :-D :-D :* :*

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Shemah,  May 9, 2009 at 11:05 PM

Yaaa.. i get you with those FB requests too.. memang ada yang sampai marah2 if you don't approve.. ala, even ppl I actually know pun I don't add on my FB marzie. I hope it doesn't really get to you! Hugsy! :) :) Oh and I got a text from Debbs.. she says to say HI TO EVERYONE!! She's having a blast over there but will be back home soon! :)

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Nessa,  May 10, 2009 at 12:27 AM

Ish! Eksen betul budak tu... macam la dia tu Raja nak marah2 orang. Don even add him as a fren, doesn't deserve your frenship! :-D

denaihati,  May 10, 2009 at 1:47 AM

Manusia ni sememangnya pelik lagi ajaib...

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Mariuca,  May 10, 2009 at 4:37 AM

Congrats sweetie! First time chop and sb point here this month woot! :)

Mariuca,  May 10, 2009 at 4:37 AM

:) Tere!

Mariuca,  May 10, 2009 at 4:39 AM

Alaaaaa Bem2! ;)

Mariuca,  May 10, 2009 at 4:39 AM

Thanks Bem2, saja nak meluahkan perasaan sekali sekala he he! :)

Mariuca,  May 10, 2009 at 4:40 AM

Ppl need to be more patient Tere, thanks sweetie! :)

Mariuca,  May 10, 2009 at 4:53 AM

You did Tere! Will put up your badge and add u to my FCSB shortly, congrats! :)

Mariuca,  May 10, 2009 at 4:54 AM

Sorry Rozy, thanks for trying, get the next one yeah? :)

Mariuca,  May 10, 2009 at 4:57 AM

B refuses to have a FB Roxy lol… I use it mostly to keep in touch with old friends and to promote my blogs of coz. Silly billy strangers! ;)

Mariuca,  May 10, 2009 at 5:00 AM

Tensi on my behalf is it?? LOL!

Mariuca,  May 10, 2009 at 5:00 AM

Besday boy tensi?

Mariuca,  May 10, 2009 at 5:05 AM

Hi Shemah, I tak pernah kena marah at FB, actually this guy marah cause I tak reply his message at blogcat on the FB request, my point is that suka hati I la bila I nak baca and reply my blogcat messages! Oh hi Debbs, glad to know she’s having a blast. Makan2 best tu. :)

Roxy's Best Of...,  May 10, 2009 at 9:55 AM

Happy Sunday, MPG! Still hoping things will turn around for Chubbs...

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Twinks,  May 10, 2009 at 10:07 AM

>:o >:o >:o for the rude one!!

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Twinks,  May 10, 2009 at 10:08 AM

I hate people like that Marzie. They think they can command you around. I totally agree with you, there are a lot of things to do, more important than replying to messages and accepting requests..

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Twinks,  May 10, 2009 at 10:08 AM

I seldom log in to my BlogCat account, maybe thrice in a month..hehehe =-O

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Twinks,  May 10, 2009 at 10:11 AM

When it comes to accepting friend request in FB, it is really up to you. I mean FB is a personal networking profile so you get to choose who you want to access your photos and other infos. I'm done already with accepting all friends request it didn't do me any good at all. hahaha.. =-X

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Twinks,  May 10, 2009 at 10:12 AM

Nah! don't accept whoever that earthling is Marzie, hehehe my bad!

Marzie I will add you up in FB..hmm..maybe we're friends there already.. wait let me check..later.. :-D *DONT_KNOW*

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bem69,  May 10, 2009 at 10:26 AM

tak tensi lah happy :)

bem69,  May 10, 2009 at 10:26 AM

No problemo :D

Mariuca,  May 10, 2009 at 10:29 AM

Morning Bem Bem! Vote for my meow blog if u’re up and about! Tenkiu Bem Bem and happy Sunday! :)

bem69,  May 10, 2009 at 10:32 AM

uik, you're still awake ke, hebat... wokeh voting now, morning Marzie!

Ane,  May 10, 2009 at 10:34 AM

UGH! I hate rude people too Marzie!! >:o >:o

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Ane,  May 10, 2009 at 10:35 AM

The nerve of that person demanding to be on your FB! >:o >:o

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Ane,  May 10, 2009 at 10:35 AM

He's so pathetic Marzie, I'd completely block him off if I were you..

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Mariuca,  May 10, 2009 at 10:50 AM

Morning Bem Bem! I dah zzzzz, early day for me today! Going out for brunch soon, thanks for voting woot!

bem69,  May 10, 2009 at 10:55 AM

Ohh, early day, hope you get you plumbing done today, no probs for the
voting and happy birthday!

Shemah,  May 10, 2009 at 11:27 AM

Itu lah.. suka hati you lah nak bila nak baca his msg ke.. or nak approve ke
or what.. suka hati lah!!!
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jena isle,  May 10, 2009 at 5:03 PM

I have never seen you so irked Mariuca. I would be too if I were in your place. He has the nerve to do that.

Mariuca,  May 10, 2009 at 7:10 PM

LOL to macam la dia Raja ha ha a, thanks Nessa! Mmg tak add pun, actually dunno his name oso, better check later so I won’t add him by mistake or something lol! :)

Shemah,  May 10, 2009 at 7:36 PM

So you memang tak kenal langsung lah orang ni marzie?? Eeee.. so weird?
Stalker alert! LOL!
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Mariuca,  May 10, 2009 at 8:32 PM

I tak kenal, don remember his name oso, alih2 kena marah for no reason, of coz la angers myself LOL!

Roxy's Best Of...,  May 10, 2009 at 8:49 PM

I belong to so many of those things... Blog Catalog, MyBlogLog, Facebook, MySpace, Friendster, LinkedIn, Social Spark... can't keep up with it all, never mind twittering all the day long!

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Shemah,  May 10, 2009 at 8:55 PM

So psycho lah dat guy.. anyone in your position mesti angers!! >.<
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Mariuca,  May 10, 2009 at 9:12 PM

I can’t keep up with my many memberships sometimes too Roxy, but I do like MBL, BlogCat and Spicy of coz! :)

Mariuca,  May 10, 2009 at 9:13 PM

Yeah why I know he’s angers cause after his tak puas hati msg, siap letak 5 ekskalamasi mark lagi!! Podah la! Ha ha ha!

Mariuca,  May 10, 2009 at 9:15 PM

That’s cause I usually let things pass me by without getting worked up Jena, but this guy obviously caught me on a bad day he he! The nerve of him right? Thanks for coming by Jena! :)

Mariuca,  May 10, 2009 at 9:15 PM

Mmg suka hati org la nak buat apa, mcm org takde kerja lain, some ppl! ;)

Mariuca,  May 10, 2009 at 9:16 PM

Happy Birthday Bem2, thanks for the vote I won! :)

Mariuca,  May 10, 2009 at 9:16 PM

Pathetic is correct Ane, I don wanna be mean but this one’s too much! :(

Mariuca,  May 10, 2009 at 9:19 PM

Rudeness is my number 1 enemy, Ane! Hence the rant and rave here at lovely MPG lol!

Mariuca,  May 10, 2009 at 9:19 PM

Demanding is correct Ane! I hate it when ppl pressure me to do something, LET ME DO IT AT MY OWN TIME, esp when you’re the one asking the favour. Plus, he’s a stranger and I don know him at all for him to make demands on me! :(

Mariuca,  May 10, 2009 at 9:20 PM

Mmg betul tu Denaihati, saja je nak sakitkan hati org! :(

Mariuca,  May 10, 2009 at 9:21 PM

Thanks for ur kind thoughts Roxy and I voted for u! Thanks for voting for me as well MEOW! :)

Mariuca,  May 10, 2009 at 9:21 PM

Boo to rude ppl Twinks!! :(

Mariuca,  May 10, 2009 at 9:22 PM

Yeah wan to command me around it seems Twinks! I know I’m nice and can be a pushover sometimes, but that doesn’t mean u should walk all over me! Me no likey! :(

Mariuca,  May 10, 2009 at 9:22 PM

I log in about once a week Twinks, gotta clear the incoming friend requests before they pile up! ;)

Mariuca,  May 10, 2009 at 9:23 PM

I hardly log in to my FB nowadays Twinks! I used to be active there, playing all the games but now is not the time, got so many other things to do! :)

Mariuca,  May 10, 2009 at 9:25 PM

Ok add me Twinks! Me too not sure if you’re already on my friends’ list, too much to handle right sometimes?

laketrees,  May 10, 2009 at 9:29 PM

grrr Mariuca!!
I stopped dealing with Blog Cat a long time ago...you have every right to be mad ...what a rude blogger :-P :-P

Mariuca,  May 10, 2009 at 9:46 PM

Thanks Kim, grrrrrrr indeed! Boo to rude bloggers! I kinda like BlogCat, Kim. :)

Feron,  May 10, 2009 at 9:48 PM

marzie... your heart, cool it! if he really wanted to be a friend, he should practice the art of being patience...

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Monica,  May 11, 2009 at 4:43 AM

this guy is crazy!!!!

Monica,  May 11, 2009 at 4:45 AM

I also hardly log in to my FB account :-D :-D

Monica,  May 11, 2009 at 4:48 AM

forget abt him, Mariuca :* :*

Mariuca,  May 11, 2009 at 4:52 AM

Forgot edi Mon, saja wan to bitch abt it though lol!

Mariuca,  May 11, 2009 at 4:52 AM

Now not so active at FB, cause so many other things to do lol!

Mariuca,  May 11, 2009 at 4:53 AM

Crazy and pathetic! :(

Rosidah Abidin,  May 11, 2009 at 8:52 AM

Sometimes people are really unbelievable! I can feel for you, Marzie.

Mariuca,  May 11, 2009 at 10:57 AM

Unbelievably impatient and plain silly if u ask me Rosidah! Hugs! :)

Mariuca,  May 11, 2009 at 12:11 PM

I like the sound of that Feron! Some ppl just don have any patience, I don wanna be friends with ppl like dat he he! ;)

Phatelara,  May 13, 2009 at 3:59 AM

Oh no! Angers post from GP! We don't like those insignificant ticks! Rude and bossy la ish!! >:o >:o >:o

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Phatelara,  May 13, 2009 at 3:59 AM

Don't care, I am angers for you, GP! Belated or not, here I am! >:o >:o >:o >:o >:o >:o

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Mariuca,  May 13, 2009 at 4:06 AM

LOL yeah la see so many things to complain abt, that’s why tak larat wan to komplen abt ec lagi ha ha! Rude right this fella? I denied his FB request edi last night! :(

Mariuca,  May 13, 2009 at 4:06 AM

Ohhh thanks for being angers for me Debbs, I was so irritated when I got his message, like wtf right?????

bem69,  May 13, 2009 at 9:57 AM

So who was the guy who requested Marzie, Castaway ke?

Ayie,  May 16, 2009 at 2:05 AM

Some people are expecting others to view them back or response if they left them something. I don't think it totally goes like that. It's a common gesture but not a rule of thumb. You have all the rights to be upset. You might notice I'm among the late commenters, I hop into blogs when i can and leave comments as to postings that interest me.

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